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Lawyer murdered and dismembered my loving sister

She showered Stephen McDaniel with kindness. He repaid her with evil.
Blonde Lauren Giddings wearing white bridesmaids dress with her brunette sister Kaitlyn Wheeler, wearing white wedding dress holding a bouquet of sunflowers in front of leafy, green background
Me with my beautiful sister Lauren on my wedding day
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  • Lauren Giddings, 27, was a kind, fun-loving law student who lived alone on campus with her dog
  • Next door was her classmate Stephen McDaniel, who many thought was odd but Lauren treated him with kindness
  • After graduating, she stayed on campus to study for her bar exam
  • When loved ones hadnโ€™t heard from her, they formed a search party, which Stephen joined
  • Police found Laurenโ€™s dismembered torso in a bin near her home
  • Laurenโ€™s sister, Kaitlyn Wheeler, 37, tells her storyโ€ฆ

Hopping up from the pull-out sofa, I noticed a set of keys on the floor. 

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โ€œYouโ€™re an idiot,โ€ I teased my sister Lauren, 27. โ€œHow didnโ€™t you see these?โ€ 

It was May 2011, and Iโ€™d travelled interstate with my sister Sarah, 18, and our parents, Karen, 51, and Bill, 56, for Laurenโ€™s law school graduation. 

We were staying at her apartment across from her uni. Lauren had complained about losing her car keys but now here they were, right near the front door. 

โ€œMaybe they were caught up in the sofa,โ€ she said, bewildered. โ€œI swear stuff gets moved around in this apartment.โ€ 

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Lauren lived alone with her dog, Butterbean, so I shrugged off the comment. 

That night, she took us to the bar where she often met her mates. She seemed surprised to see a man there playing darts alone. 

Blonde Lauren Giddings, who was murdered by Stephen McDaniel, in a pink dress holding her small golden dog, Butterbean, on a porch with a leafy tree in the background
Lauren and her dog Butterbean (Credit: Supplied)

She explained he was her classmate and next door neighbour, Stephen McDaniel, 25.  

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โ€œIโ€™d invited him to come out,โ€ she said, โ€œbut he rarely leaves his apartment.โ€ 

Sheโ€™d mentioned him before. Many students found Stephen weird, but Lauren, true to her nature, made an effort with him. 

โ€œIf he ever goes crazy, Iโ€™ll be safe because Iโ€™m one of the few people he likes,โ€ she joked.  

Next day, we proudly watched Lauren graduate. She planned to stay on campus to study for her bar exam. 

Weeks later, however, she popped home to be maid of honour at my wedding to my fiancรฉ, Daniel, 24. 

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Afterwards, Lauren and I hugged goodbye. 

โ€œIโ€™ll be studying so you might not hear from me as much,โ€ she explained. Sheโ€™d even left Butterbean at Mum and Dadโ€™s so she could focus. 

Sure enough, our communication waned over the next two weeks, but I was on my honeymoon anyway. 

Blonde Lauren Giddings, who was murdered by Stephen McDaniel, in black graduation cape and hat, holding her small, golden dog Butterbean in front of white french doors
Lauren and Butterbean at graduation (Credit: Supplied)
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Back home, on June 29, one of Laurenโ€™s best friends, Katie, texted me. 

Have you heard from Lauren? she asked. She isnโ€™t answering my calls. 

When I tried phoning, it went to voicemail. It wasnโ€™t like Lauren to turn off her phone. 

Mum and Sarah hadnโ€™t spoken to her either, so I messaged her uni mate, Ashley. 

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I saw her at the bar on Friday, she responded. 

That was four days earlier.   

Ashley used the spare key to check on Lauren and told me that although she wasnโ€™t there, her keys, wallet and phone were. Her car was out front, too. 

โ€œCall police,โ€ I urged. 

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The search

Officers inspected Laurenโ€™s unit and couldnโ€™t see any signs of foul play. But I knew something wasnโ€™t right. 

Mum was away interstate so I called Dad. 

โ€œIโ€™ll find her,โ€ he said and began the 12-hour drive to Laurenโ€™s place. 

I spent the night calling hospitals, but no-one had seen my sister. 

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Next morning, Sarah and I gathered at our grandmotherโ€™s house. 

Soon, my uncle arrived with news heโ€™d seen online. 

โ€œPolice have found a body in a bin outside Laurenโ€™s flat,โ€ he told us sombrely. 

As we wept, I knew the chances of it not being Lauren were slim. 

Lauren Giddings in white, sister Sarah in blue and yellow dress, sister Kaitlyn in sunflower patterned dress, mom in blue floral dress and dad in blue polo shirt posing in front of a tree
Lauren, Sarah, me, Mum and Dad during our last visit with Lauren (Credit: Supplied)
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My mind raced through potential suspects, but I couldnโ€™t imagine anyone wanting to kill my sister. 

Telling Mum when she returned was torture, as was calling Dad, who was driving. 

Their grief was overwhelming. 

That night, we were told that the body theyโ€™d found was just the torso. 

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Some monster had cut off her head and limbs! 

The thought was beyond horrifying. 

We all went to Laurenโ€™s apartment. Sheโ€™d been just days away from moving out. 

Detectives, still searching for the rest of her body, gave little information, but a local journalist, Joe Kovac updated us. โ€œLuminol detectors showed her bathtub had been full of blood,โ€ he said. 

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After police matched Laurenโ€™s body with Mumโ€™s DNA, they discovered a bloody sheet in the buildingโ€™s communal laundry and a hacksaw with human blood on it in the maintenance store room. 

Who would do this to her?

Every tenant had agreed to have their apartment searched except one: Stephen McDaniel. 

He was taken in for questioning while police examined his unit. 

There, they found packaging from the hacksaw, a pair of Laurenโ€™s underwear and a stolen master key to every flat in the building. 

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I remembered Laurenโ€™s car keys on the floor. 

Had it been Stephen moving things around? I wondered with a shudder. 

Wide-eyed Stephen McDaniel with long brown hair in ponytail, wearing a grey, pin-stripped suit, white shirt, burgundy tie, carrying a brown filo-folder of documents
Stephen McDaniel (Credit: Woody Marshall/Macon Telegraph/Tribune News Service via Getty Images)

Stephen maintained his innocence but evidence against him mounted, including video footage heโ€™d taken of Laurenโ€™s apartment the night she was killed. 

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The sicko planned this, I seethed

Police couldnโ€™t find the rest of her body but charged Stephen with murder

Stephen McDaniel faces court

Initially, he pleaded not guilty but finally, in April 2014, a week before the trial, Stephen admitted to murdering and dismembering Lauren. 

In court, we heard his account of what happened on June 26, 2011, the morning of Laurenโ€™s death. 

At 4.30am, wearing gloves and a mask, heโ€™d used the master key to sneak into her apartment. Then, heโ€™d watched her sleep until she woke with a start. 

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โ€œI leaped across the bed onto her and grabbed her around the throat,โ€ Stephen confessed.  

Lauren pulled off his mask, called his name and screamed for him to stop. 

He strangled her for 15 minutes until she stopped moving, then dragged her body into the bathtub.  

Later that night, he returned to dismember her head and limbs, and placed them in a dumpster on campus. 

Police cars during the investigation had prevented garbage collectors from accessing the bin in which heโ€™d put her torso, a factor Stephen hadnโ€™t anticipated. 

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โ€œItโ€™s difficult for me to explain why I killed Lauren,โ€ Stephen told the court. โ€œI am not without all morals or decency.โ€ 

But Judge Howard Simms disagreed, describing him as โ€œtruly evilโ€. He was right. 

Stephen Mark McDaniel, 28, was sentenced to life in prison with no chance of parole until 2041. 

We hope heโ€™s never granted parole. 

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Blonde Lauren in pink bikini with her small golden dog sitting on a chair on a beach
Lauren worked hard and played hard (Credit: Supplied)

By Stephenโ€™s own admission, Lauren had shown him nothing but kindness. Someone as twisted as him shouldnโ€™t be free. 

In 2017, our family established the Lauren Teresa Giddings scholarship which prioritises applicants who are the first in their family to attend university, like Lauren was. 

Daniel and I have had five kids, naming our eldest daughter Lauren, to keep my sisterโ€™s memory alive. 

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After what weโ€™ve been through, it would be easy to live in fear, but Lauren didnโ€™t. Instead, she lived life to the fullest and Iโ€™m encouraging my kids to be just like her. 

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