Royals

Kate Middleton’s fashion effect

Kate Middleton's fashion effect

Everyone is trying to solve the mystery of who will design Kate Middleton’s wedding dress, but it seems for now designers around the world are lining up to supply her day-to-day wardrobe.

When she wore a double-breasted beige wool Burberry trench coat with a frilled, flared hem to a pancake-tossing session in Belfast, it sold out online in sizes four, six, eight and 10 within just one day, the UK’s Daily Mail reported.

The £650 ($1040) coat is part of Burberry’s spring-summer 2011 collection and the grey version of the coat also sold out in sizes four, six and 10. But they weren’t the only sellouts.

Sales of online shopping site Asda’s £22 ($32) imitation version of the coat soared by 300 percent around the same time.

Kate caused similar fashion chaos when she stepped out in her dark blue Issa engagement dress. Shortly after images were released of her in the dress, department store Harvey Nichols reported the dress had “sold out within hours” of her wearing it.

Money

Are you prepared for retirement?

A woman with small savings

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Retirement. Snooze. Investments. Yawn.

It’s ironic; while financial security is what most of us strive for, it’s an area where we’re likely to bury our heads in the sand.

In 2007, The Financial Literacy Foundation reported around 31 percent of adults think dealing with money is boring, while another 48 percent found money matters completely overwhelming.

If you add this attitude to the many unique challenges women face today, like increasing longevity and meagre superannuation payouts, you have an alarming amount of Australian women who face an unstable financial future.

In fact, it’s not only estimated by 2019 women will have half the amount of super that men do but we’ll also be twice as likely to live in poverty in our old age. With worrying predications like that, it’s time to wake up from this monetary slumber, asap.

But is it easier said than done? Well, they say knowledge is power, so the first step is being aware of the two types of challenges that could cause financial hardship later on. The first being, practical challenges.

Longevity

The life expectancy of Australian women has risen to 82 years in comparison to 77 years for men. This not only requires funds to last longer than ever before but medical costs need to be factored in for this prolonged stage of life.

Lower pay

Even today, on average, women still earn $300 less than men a week. This isn’t just down to general inequality but the fact more women are concentrated in lower-paid work areas such as retail and hospitality, meaning it’s tougher to save and harder to secure a good amount of work super contributions too.

Career breaks

While men tend to remain on a path of full-time work throughout their life, it’s more probable that women will veer on and off it at various stages, especially when starting a family. Again super contributions suffer, earning less interest for later years.

Women are more likely to take on multiple part-time jobs too, which can be financially detrimental to their retirement years, as earning less than $450 per week, per job, means super is not legally payable.

Experts warn that these practical barriers are only part of the problem facing women today. For us ladies, money is linked more deeply with relationships and emotions, so we need to be financially alert when facing the second area of potential risks.

Cinderella singletons

Theoretically, after finishing full-time education, women are financially in a great place to get a head start on saving, with no mortgages or kids in sight. In reality though, young twentysomething’s make up most of the 31 percent that financially live for the day.

Many have come out of uni with debts so huge they believe they’ll never get ahead and max out the credit cards further on short term fixes. Often they hope for a prince to relieve them of financial duties and burdens.

But according to a Citibank survey, one in four Australians may never marry so delaying responsibility is highly risky.

Selfless savers

Becoming a mum gives birth to more than just new life but also to the selfless gene, where mums always come last. It’s no surprise then that many women feel putting money aside for their future over their kids needs is an indulgent luxury.

Ironically, if proactive steps aren’t taken for financial security, chances are it’s the kids who’ll be landed with the burden of supporting their parents later on.

Sandwiched generation

A US study reported that while a golden handshake is the most common reason for men’s early retirement, for women, its care giving.

Around 25 percent of Australian women in their fifties look after their elderly family members on a full- or part-time basis.

Because many still have dependant kids, they are squeezed between two generations needs, sacrificing their own savings.

Trusting traditionalists

Divorce rates among the older generations are among the highest in the country with a staggering 81 percent increase in the divorce rate for people aged between 60 and 64 over the 20 years to 2005.

Female baby boomers often left financial management up to their husbands during marriage but with many facing unexpected divorce later down the track, they’re also facing a frightening future with no accumulated savings or super and little chance to build up any wealth.

Luckily amendments to laws in 2002 helped address some of the immediate problems, namely making super a claimable marriage asset.

Of course all of the above challenges can affect anyone in any stage of life. It’s not just the over-50 age group that are prone to leave money matters to partners, just as it’s not only young twentysomething’s who wait in vain for their princes to save them. We are all vulnerable to these potholes.

In an uncertain economy with ever-changing governmental policies, taking responsibility for our own financial affairs is a necessity; excuses like being too young, too busy or too overwhelmed just doesn’t cut it.

With the growing amount of avenues that aim to empower and advise women, we no longer have to drift in and out of consciousness trying to understand bank manager language. Instead we can turn to websites designed for women and even self-help investment groups (like book clubs without the books) formed for women.

So get proactive, take one step and become accountable for your own financial security. Can you really afford not to?

Real Life

I lied to get time away from my kids

Working mum and baby

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Please let me start by saying that I love my husband and kids. But the truth is I never had a yearning to be a parent. If I had not married Michael, who desperately wanted children, I doubt I would have become a mother.

To complicate things, both my pregnancies were difficult, so I did not get to have the “glowing” period so many other mothers seem to go through. Then I had problems with breastfeeding, and my first child seemed incapable of sleeping. I felt like I was always grumpy and snapping at everyone.

I felt guilty putting the children in day care when I went back to work, but we needed my full-time wage, and I needed the headspace. Suddenly I wasn’t just “mum” anymore; I could have real conversations with adults that didn’t involved childhood milestones and parenting tips. I could go out for coffee and not have to worry about what the kids were up to, or be constantly interrupted. It was bliss.

Michael felt the guilt of “abandoning” the children more than I did, and he tried desperately to get a job that paid more so I could go part-time. I told him I didn’t mind working and he looked horrified.

He said I was just saying it to make him feel better, “because a mother should want to be with her children” and he tried even harder to get new work. Whenever I could I offered to post his applications but I put them in the bin.

Then my boss offered me a major promotion. The salary increase was significant, and my boss made it clear that it would not mean long hours in the office. She was a mother too and “knew what it was like to be away from the family”.

I’d like to say what happened next took a while to occur to me, but the moment I walked out of the office I called Michael and told him the good news, and suggested that he apply to go part-time.

I also added that it would mean longer hours in the office, but it was a sacrifice I was willing to make for the children. But I intended to take more time for myself.

My first night out was to the movies. A group of us from the office went to see the latest blockbuster. It felt so indulgent and wonderful. After that it became an almost weekly event. I would go out for drinks with friends, or to a cosy cafe to read a book. I even went on a girls’ weekend away, which I told my husband was a conference.

I know it is deceitful, and my shame is compounded by the sympathy I get from my husband every time I come in at 10 o’clock from “the office”. But since I have been doing this he has been happier than I have ever seen him, the kids are grounded and getting lots of quality dad time, and I am fulfilled and relaxed too.

Surely such a secret cannot be a bad thing?

Your say: Do you avoid spending time with your children? Share your thoughts below.

Royals

From china to condoms: Royal wedding memorabilia in a modern age

From china to condoms: Royal wedding memorabilia in a modern age

Opportunistic retailers are selling everything from tea towels to sick bags to commemorate the wedding of Prince William and Kate Middleton. Liz Burke looks at the best and worst royal souvenirs on offer.

When Princess Diana and Prince Charles wed in 1981, few households in the Commonwealth were left without a plate, mug, or even a tea-towel, emblazoned with the couple’s faces to commemorate the occasion.

In pictures: Kate Middleton’s family photos

With Prince William’s wedding to Kate Middleton just around the corner, royal watchers once again find themselves in the grip of commemorative merchandise frenzy and this time the offerings are a little more inventive.

As well as the usual memorabilia, souvenir-makers are cashing in on the wedding of the century with a range of royally-themed products to suit any taste or sense of humour.

The Royal Mint released the official royal wedding coin this week.

While the embossed image of the couple isn’t the most flattering, with Kate appearing rather toothy and her fiancé boasting a significantly fuller mane than recent photographs depict, it has been greeted with a better reception than the disastrous royal engagement coin.

The first commemorative coin of its kind was met with criticism and derision from fans of the princess-to-be who questioned the image’s likeness to the real Ms Middleton.

Prince William has personally approved official souvenirs including a tankard, plate, and pill box, but the couple’s faces have also been stamped on mugs, caps, t-shirts, and some more amusing commemorative paraphernalia.

As well as conservative tea-towels and tapestries, a royal wedding play set is available for the kids, and more mocking royal watchers can enjoy souvenir condoms bearing the slogan “Lie back and think of England,” and listing “lavishly lubed” and “regally ribbed” among the product’s benefits.

For the lads, commemorative t-shirts for Will’s stag do can be purchased online.

Followers of Kate can have her immortalised in doll-form by getting their hands the special edition commemorative barbie-like figurine wearing her now famous engagement dress.

Craft enthusiasts have been not been forgotten, with a special edition Knit Your Own Royal Wedding book by Fiona Goble being released in the UK this week. The handy tome provides knitting patterns for 10 key players at the wedding, including William, Kate, Prince Harry, Queen Elizabeth, Prince Philip, Prince Charles, Camilla Parker Bowles, the Archbishop of Canterbury and even the queen’s famous corgis. Each figure takes about five hours to knit.

Even the most cynical shoppers have been catered for, with paper “sick bags” bearing a photo of Kate and William on sale on the internet.

Related: Prince William to visit Australia before wedding

The royal wedding is also drumming up business for Kate’s family’s business Party Pieces as they too are cashing in on the impending nuptials, preparing to release a range of products for people planning their own royal wedding celebrations.

The Middleton’s will be supplying a range of limited edition party goods, though critics have expressed concern about the family profiting from their daughter’s entry into the royal family.

Your say: Have you got your eye on any royal wedding memorabilia? Do you think Kate’s family should be allowed to make money from their daughter’s wedding?

The Weekly will be tweeting live from London on April 29. Follow @AWW_London and @WomensWeeklyMag for the latest news and gossip.

Video: Royal wedding fever strikes the UK

Fashion

Kate Moss sparks smoking outrage

Kate Moss sparks smoking outrage

Kate Moss on the catwalk for Louis Vuitton

Just days after designer John Galliano’s anti-Semitic comments, the fashion industry has again prompted outrage, this time by featuring cigarette smoking on the catwalk.

British supermodel Kate Moss defied anti-smoking laws in France and smoked on the runway during a Louis Vuitton show at Paris Fashion Week.

In pictures: Million dollar bodies

The incident coincided with no-smoking day in the United Kingdom and scandalised health activists, who fear Moss’ behaviour endorsed cigarette smoking and glamorised one of world’s biggest killers. Influential website style.com described Moss as “smoking in every sense”.

Moss is close friends with Galliano, who was sacked from fashion house Christian Dior last week after being caught on camera drunkenly telling two strangers that he ‘loves Hitler’.

Anti-semitic comments are illegal in France.

Related: John Galliano to face court on charges of racism

In the wake of Galliano’s comments, industry observers asked whether the fashion industry’s fondness for breaking community taboos had gone too far.

Your say: What do you think? Do you think the fashion industry should rein in the behaviour of its stars and set an example to young women? Or should Kate Moss be able to smoke on the catwalk in the name of art?

Video: Behind the scenes with Kate Moss on a Vogue eyewear shoot.

Celebrity News

Justin Timberlake and Jessica Biel split

Justin Timberlake and Jessica Biel split

Following months of on-again, off-again rumors Jessica Biel and Justin Timberlake have confirmed they have broken up.

“Addressing the media speculation regarding Jessica Biel and Justin Timberlake’s relationship, we are confirming that they mutually have decided to part ways.

“The two remain friends and continue to hold the highest level of love and respect for each other.”

A source told the magazine that the split “was mutual” and that 29-year-old Jessica “is doing well.”

The couple had been together four years after starting a relationship in January 2007.

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Royals

Kate Middleton figurine released

Kate Middleton figurine released

Left: Franklin Mint's Kate Middleton doll. Right: The real thing with Prince William

Look out Barbie, there’s a new doll in town — and in just eight weeks she’s going to be a real-life princess.

The Franklin Mint has released a limited-edition Kate Middleton figurine, which will sell for $195. The hand-painted doll is dressed like Kate on the day she announced her engagement to Prince William last year.

The figurine is wearing a tiny replica of her blue Issa wrap dress and black pumps and has the princess-to-be’s trademark glossy brown locks. The figurine is also wearing a tiny copy of Kate’s famous diamond and sapphire engagement ring that once belonged to William’s mother, Princess Diana.

In pictures: Kate Middleton’s family photos

Just 5000 of the engagement figurines have been made and the company is planning a further 5000 dressed in a replica of Kate’s wedding dress.

The bridal figurine costs $295, and won’t be available until some weeks after William and Kate’s April 29 wedding as the mint’s dressmakers need time to recreate the bride’s dress.

“For the first time in over 350 years, a non-royal like one of us is beginning that journey for real,” the Franklin Mint said. “Celebrate this moment in history with the finest dolls in the world. Experience the thrill of her engagement by owning one of the most elegant and regal treasures in the world.”

Related: Prince William to visit Australia before wedding

Kate is not the first royal to be immortalised by a Franklin Mint figurine. The company currently sells eight Princess Diana figurines, including one wearing an exact replica of the late princess’ wedding gown.

Your say: Would you buy a Kate Middleton figurine or do you think the royal wedding memorabilia craze has gone too far?

Video: Meet the man behind William and Kate’s wedding cake

Royals

Prince William to visit Australia before wedding

Don't wear white: Royal wedding rule book released

Prince William will visit Australia before his wedding with Kate Middleton in April, exclusively revealed by Channel Nine’s Mornings with Kerri-Anne show.

The prince will fly out in eight days to visit flood devastated areas in Queensland and Victoria as well as earthquake ravaged Christchurch and Greymouth, the scene of the Pike Mine disaster in New Zealand.

The Palace said Ms Middleton would not join Prince William for the trip, from March 17 to 21, because it was an official royal visit.

In pictures: Kate Middleton’s family photos

Prince William visited Australia and New Zealand as part of his first tour as an adult in January last year.

While his visit to New Zealand was an official tour, the Prince said he requested the less formal trip to Australia so he could get to know the country better.

Prince William first came to Australia as a nine-month-old baby in 1983 with his mother Princess Diana and father Prince Charles.

The 28-year-old is due to marry his long-term girlfriend Kate Middleton, 29, on April 29 at Westminster Abbey in London.

The couple began dating in 2003 after they met while studying at the University of St Andrews.

Julia Gillard, her partner, and Australia’s Governor General Quentin Bryce are among 1,900 guests invited to the wedding.

Your say: Are you looking forward to William’s visit? Would you brave the crowds to get a glimpse of him?

Video: Prince William and Kate go public

Homes

How to look after your garden in autumn

March is the perfect time to get trim and terrific – not you (though gardening is a great tummy trimmer and stress buster), but your trees and shrubs.
Keeping trim: Autumn gardening

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Trimming encourages fresh, new growth, as well as keeping things neat. And if you have a small garden – or just want to fit in as many gorgeous plants as possible – try some of the following:

1. Instead of fences, prune and shape apple, pear, plum, cumquat or other fruit trees into espaliers or “living fences”.

2. Prune fruit trees, camellias and native shrubs flat against walls and fences, to minimise the space they take up. In cold climates, planting against sunny north-facing walls will help you grow frost-tender plants.

3. Instead of using shade sails, grow fast-growing ornamental grapes or wisteria along a solid framework to keep summer sunlight away from windows and paving. For real magnificence, try a natural arch of tall trees, bent and pruned to shape.

4. Prune lower tree branches to let more light onto flowers below, but thin out some top branches, or the tree may get top heavy and fall over.

5. Thin out thick trees in humid areas to let the breezes through.

Now is the time to …

1. Mulch! Especially bare soil that may get washed away in thunderstorms.

2. Plant the flowers and vegetables that will give you bounty and beauty all through winter.

3. Spray vines with a cup of milk to nine cups of water to help prevent downy mildew.

4. Trim back roses to get an autumn glory of new flowers.

5. Plant rosemary, winter savoury and oregano to replace summer herbs such as basil.

6. Fill hanging baskets with pansies for blooms all through autumn, winter and spring.

What to plant

Subtropical and tropical areas:

Plants to eat:

Strawberry runners, sweet potatoes, passionfruit vines, parsley and other herbs, beetroot, capsicum, carrot, cauliflowers, celery, cucumber, eggplant, lettuce seedlings (lettuce seeds may not germinate in the heat), paak tsoi, pumpkin, radish, silver beet, sweet corn, tomatoes and watermelon.

Plants for beauty:

Hibiscus, bougainvillea, tropical evergreen fruit trees, ageratum, celosia, cosmos, coleus, Iceland poppy, salvia and sunflowers.

Temperate to cold areas:

Plants to eat:

Strawberry runners, passionfruit and banana passionfruit, rhubarb, blueberries, artichoke, beans, beetroot, broccoli, cabbage, carrots (try the tiny, fat, fast-maturing ones in cold climates), sweet corn (fast-maturing varieties only), leek, lettuce, white onions, salad greens such as corn salad, mizuna, mitsuba, cress, red Italian chicory, silver beet, spring onions, lots of English spinach.

Plants for beauty:

Iris, daffodils and jonquils, alyssum, stocks and flowers to give you colour and cheer through winter – pansies, violas, primulas, Iceland poppies, wallflowers and polyanthus.

Your say: Do you have any tips for autumn gardening? Send them to [email protected]

Lifestyle

Herbs: Fresh, dried or frozen?

Herbs: Fresh, dried or frozen?

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Question: I’ve planted a small herb garden, using basil, oregano, marjoram, sage and thyme, and it is now flourishing. Can any of these herbs be frozen or dried for future use?

Answer: Herbs may be used fresh or dried. Many are better fresh, but some, including oregano, marjoram, thyme and bay leaves, flavour food best when dried.

Soft herbs, such as basil, parsley and chervil, can be frozen for up to three months. Wash and dry the herbs well, chop and freeze in small containers or ice-cube trays with a little water.

Once frozen, store the cubes in a resealable bag. Alternatively, you can freeze puréed soft herbs with a little olive oil in small containers.

To dry herbs naturally, hang in small bunches in a well-ventilated spot out of direct sunlight, which may cause the essential oils to evaporate. Drying is complete when the leaves feel brittle. Store in airtight glass jars.

Herbs can also be dried using a microwave oven. Scatter handfuls of cleaned leaves and sprigs evenly on a double layer of kitchen paper. Microwave on HIGH (100 percent) for about 2 minutes 30 seconds. Woody herbs, such as bay leaves or rosemary, may take longer. After drying, store in an airtight container in a cool dark place.