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Kieren and Symantha Perkins: The truth behind their split

Kieren and Symantha Perkins: The truth behind their split

Friends say the former golden couple’s marriage has been on the rocks a long time.

Kieren Perkins took off his wedding ring and walked out of his marriage three months ago, after years of trying to make the increasingly fractured relationship work for the sake of his children. Friends say drama has dogged the former golden couple for much of their 15-year marriage, with Kieren’s heavy work commitments and Symantha’s health problems finally taking their toll.

“Although they presented a happy face to the public, Kieren and Sam have had plenty to deal with in their relationship,” confirms one source close to the pair. “It always seemed another crisis was just around the corner, usually to do with Sam’s health. Kieren was used to soldiering on, but with problems always mounting at home, it was like living in a pressure cooker. The fairytale has been frayed around the edges for a while.”

Kieren, 38, moved out of their Brisbane home almost three months ago, but the split barely caused a ripple in the news pages, dominated as they were by the headline-grabbing antics of fellow Olympian Grant Hackett and his estranged wife, Candice Alley.

“It’s an awful thing, but you’ve got to take yourself out of it and recognise that our three children are all that matters and make them as comfortable as possible, and make sure we get through this as quickly as we can,” Kieren tells Sydney’s The Daily Telegraph newspaper. “Sam and I, right from the start, were always very committed to making sure that the kids came first.”

Read more about Kieren and Symantha’s sad split in this week’s Woman’s Day on sale Monday June 11, 2012.

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Lara Bingle: I’m Australia’s Kim Kardashian

Lara Bingle: I'm Australia's Kim Kardashian

Beyond brand Bingle, Lara insists she’s a misunderstood model simply finding her voice.

Most women would feel uncomfortable with people drawing comparisons between her and Kim Kardashian. But then, Lara Bingle isn’t most women. The 24-year-old, who shot to fame at just 17 in the now infamous “Where the bloody hell are you?” Australian tourism ads, is following in Kim’s footsteps, launching a reality TV career. And while Lara points out that, personality-wise, Kim is “very different to me”, she admits the lifestyle similarities are uncanny.

“I love clothes and creating things,” says Lara, adding, “She does have endorsements the same as me [and] a reality show.” And the parallels don’t end there. Just like Kim, Lara’s had her fair share of high-profile romances and embarrassing moments – from those nude photos to her recent court case for driving without a licence. “I’ve just made some bad [decisions], or had some bad advice,” she says sheepishly. “S**t follows me and it’s annoying sometimes, but I feel like it’s a good place now.”

It’s this disarming honesty and surprising self-awareness that may see Lara win herself some new fans. “The perception out there is nothing that I can change,” she says. “Doing this show… just being able to be me, and create my own [image] and control it on my own, and how I envision it to be [is a good thing].” And it’s not just Lara who is going under the microscope for the sake of entertainment. In true Kardashian style, she’s rolling out the whole Bingle bunch.

“It was a hard thing to ask as well, because I need them to do the show just as much as I need to do the show,” she says of her family’s involvement. “They are the worst critics. My mum and brother really put me in my place!” Lara admits she used the much-hyped Kardashian clan as an example before cameras started rolling on her own show.”

Read more about Lara’s life as Kim Kardashian in this week’s Woman’s Day on sale Monday June 11, 2012.

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Chrissie Swan breaks down: ‘I’ve made mistakes’

Chrissie Swan breaks donw: 'I've made mistakes'

Chrissie Swan

Chrissie Swan reveals how she was left devastated by the online bullies who ridiculed her and her family over her three-year-old son’s weight.

When Chrissie Swan posed for a photo shoot with her two young sons she had no idea it would spawn such fervent debate over her son’s weight and eating habits. With nine-month-old Kit on her knee, her elder son Leo peeking cheekily over her shoulder, it’s a candid moment between a mother and her sons.

But far from evoking the usual “oohs” and “aahs”, the photos garnered an ugly wave of opinion. “Wish it hadn’t turned out so yuck,” Chrissie tweeted after the images were released. She was, of course, not referring to the shoot itself, but the furore that followed. “When I saw how fat that kid was I was shocked and repelled. Truly runs close to child abuse,” sniped one critic. “The two fat kids are destined to an early grave by the looks of it. I wonder what their diet is?” said another.

But not everyone was on the attack. Many jumped to Chrissie’s defence, calling “bully” on the cruel comments. “I have watched in horror over the past few days as people have written the most insulting and cruel things about Chrissie and her beautiful sons Leo and Kit,” wrote Mamamia.com.au’s Rebecca Sparrow.

“If you are really feeling as good about yourselves as Chrissie obviously does about her own self, then you wouldn’t feel any need to be so judgmental about her or her family,” wrote another supporter. The scandal gained momentum when Chrissie bravely recounted in her Sunday Life column the moment she realised that Leo, 3, was overweight. “Last month he had a check-up with the maternal health nurse, and that was when the news of his extra seven kilos was broken,” Chrissie wrote.

Read more about Chrissie and what other experts say about her son in this week’s Woman’s Day on sale Monday June 11, 2012.

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The Jolie-Pitt family’s crisis

The Jolie-Pitt family's crisis

Brad and Ange are clashing over troubled Pax.

For years, Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie have been the poster parents for modern families. Until now. Friends have revealed that Pax, the second-eldest at age eight, has behavioural issues, which may stem from his early years in a Ho Chi Minh City orphanage.

Brad and Ange are now reportedly clashing over how to handle him. “Pax is somewhat of a challenging child,” an insider tells Woman’s Day. And the one bearing the brunt of the problem is his studious brother, Maddox.

“Pax has been taking out his frustrations on him, culminating in ripping up a science project Madd had put together on the solar system,” says our source. “Pax and Maddox’s fights at times escalate into physical ones, which Ange won’t tolerate,” says a close friend of the couple. “But she doesn’t like discipline, so she just separates them.”

This sort of reaction has Brad tearing his hair out. “Brad’s upset with Angie – he accuses her of appearing to treat Maddox as her favourite, leaving Pax feeling excluded,” claims a source. “Angie frequently takes Maddox on solo mother-son bonding sessions, but leaves Brad to deal with Pax. Pax gets sad because he’s left to play with Zahara and Shiloh… But the truth is he’s not often chosen for excursions due to his behaviour.”

Read more about Brad and Ange’s clash in this week’s Woman’s Day on sale Monday June 11, 2012.

Parenting

What all parents need to know about sexting

What all parents need to know about sexting

These recipes and craft ideas come from The Best of Children's Art & Crafts. You will need: toothpicks vegetable dye apples, oranges and various fruits carrots, potatoes and various vegetables sultanas, marshmallows, soft sweets, chenille sticks, to decorate Place toothpicks in a warm vegtable dye mixture. wood colours more quickly in warm dye. Spread on newspaper to dry. Using the coloured toothpicks, stick a selection of fruits and vegetables together to form a sculpture or a creature. Choose foods that will be easy to stick toothpicks into; avoid hard foods. Vegetables could be cooked slightly so they are more easily pierced by the toothpicks. Decorate as desired.

“Sexting” is a new and worrying trend among teenagers – sending nude pictures of themselves via their mobile phones. Here’s what all parents should know about this phenomenon.

Kissing behind the bike shed at school and passing love letters in class are so passé. These days, teens are engaging in “sexting” — sending naked texts of themselves to their boyfriends and girlfriends.

If you haven’t heard of sexting, you’re not alone. It’s a relatively new phenomenon in the cyber-world and through it teenagers are, unfortunately, the latest targets for sexual predators.

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Kids will always be kids. Put teenage hormones together with a lack of judgement and it’s not surprising that children get up to things that parents don’t want to know about.

The difference now is that advances in technology, such as the internet and mobile phones, simply give kids better tools to misbehave with, heightening the potential for mischief.

The generation gap between parents and children is getting wider as adults become more disconnected from the technological world their kids live in.

Police have said that sexting rates are already high and the Kids Help Line reports that 50 per cent of its bullying related calls are attributed to this type of cyber-bullying.

Now, it seems, is the time for parents to take action and become more familiar with their children’s world.

The crucial issue behind sexting is that these images of children are falling into the wrong hands or, increasingly, into the view of a worldwide audience on the internet.

A disturbing survey by Girlfriend magazine reported that as many as 40 per cent of young girls surveyed had been asked to send sexual images of themselves via their mobile phones.

The Age newspaper in Melbourne also surveyed local teens and, among its findings, were three 15-year-old girls who responded that they enjoyed the positive reaction sexting creates, saying, “Girls feel like they can’t get attention without putting themselves out there like that”.

Even more alarming were the comments of two men, aged 21 and 17, who said they often sent and received these messages “because we can and we can get away with it”.

While teenagers may think that sending these images to their friends or potential suitors is harmless, any image that portrays a minor in an indecent manner or engaging in sexual activity is regarded as child pornography and people who receive or pass on these types of images are risking criminal charges, whether they are a minor or an adult.

Parents need to become more aware of what their children are doing with their mobile phones and personal computers because what might seem like a harmless image of themselves to be used privately can fall into the hands of sexual predators and be posted across the internet.

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What parents can do to protect their children

  • Teach children the dangers of this type of behaviour and advise them to think before they act.

  • Ensure children know that they are not to send pornographic images of themselves to anyone either over their mobile phones or via the internet. Even minors who have child pornography in their possession can be charged under the law.

  • Teach children about the types of sexual predators that are out there and may prey on them.

  • Parents should familiarise themselves with the new technologies that are around, so they understand the potential for exploitation, as well as what their kids are doing.

  • Parents need to overcome any embarrassment they may feel about talking to their children about sex, so they can be effective when educating their kids about the dangers associated with child pornography.

  • If parents are going to give their child a mobile phone, ensure they are mature enough to use it appropriately.

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Josh Horner: My stage comeback

Josh Horner: My stage comeback

Josh Horner

Dancing with the Stars judge Josh Horner will put his own dance skills to the test when he tours the country next month with the Aussie stage revival of the classic Broadway musical, A Chorus Line.

Horner, who plays Zac in the musical, comes to the role with plenty of onstage experience, having started his performing career as a member of the Australian Ballet before travelling to New York to play Billy Elliot on Broadway.

Here, he talks to Bryce Corbett about strapping on the dance shoes and getting back up on stage.

How’s your American accent? “Would you like fries with that?” Ah, its okay, never going to say I’m perfect but I have been told I do a good job by industry friends!

You’re taking on a role made famous by Michael Douglas in the film adaptation of A Chorus Line. Big shoes to fill? Yeah, look everyone has a preconceived idea of the show from the movie, or they’ve seen a live production somewhere. I watched the movie again to get a flavour of how Michael Douglous attacked the role but with any show I do I always make sure to put my own mark on it.

How did your years with the Australian Ballet prepare you for a show like this? The Aussie Ballet was a great training ground for the career I’ve had. A Chorus Line is a very technical show dance-wise so you really need a solid strong technique to nail the choreography. All those years in the ballet studio have certainly paid off. I have to say it’s more fun doing this show than a white tights ballet.

You and Todd make a great show of rivalry on Dancing with the Stars but is it really that tense between you once the cameras are off? No. We chat about life and stuff before the show and there isn’t a hint of tension. Afterwards, he leaves pretty much straight away so we don’t really have a post-show beer together so it’s all just professional. At the end of the day I think if we go each other on the show we know it isn’t personal. Well, I hope it isn’t.

What is it about A Chorus Line that makes it a such a crowd-pleaser 40 years after its Broadway debut? How do you explain its enduring appeal? I find that with A Chorus Line every audience member relates to one or more of the characters. It’s very real and a good insight to where dancers have come from and have grown up just like normal people with struggles of everyday life. There are stories about divorcing parents, bullying, image problems, puberty and sexuality. It’s a very relatable show and you never get bored because there’s always a new story to be told with awesome dancing and singing in between. I sit at the back of the audience during the show and see just how the audience reacts and it’s awesome.

Why such a short run in each of the capital cities? This is, afterall, a musical that ran for decades on Broadway and the West End. I think it’s a very successful model now for musicals. Short run and pack the audience in. The experience of a full house is just wonderful for a performer and we seem to have really successful seasons so far. If a show is playing to half audiences after sitting in a city for six months it can feel a struggle. I also think for producers it’s a safer option in case a show doesn’t take off, you haven’t lost money on a failing show.

What can audiences expect from this production of A Chorus Line that they won’t have seen in previous productions? Well, they get to judge me and see how I rank on the dance floor. Baayork Lee has directed the cast with valuable knowledge from first-hand experiences as she was an original cast member. It’s a perfect ‘Classic Broadway Show’ to see. Our production has already received wonderful reviews and the cast is so diverse and rich with talent it would be sad if you missed it.

Why were you attracted to the role of Zac? Zac is the role that really suits my real life right now. The past three years I’ve focussed on choreographing more. I’ve been working as a consultant for Disney and holding auditions in LA and been on the other side of the table as opposed to trying to get the role in the show. I just suit Zac right now. It’s great timing.

Do you miss the rigours of being in the Australian Ballet corps? Or do your hip, ankle and knee joints thank you? I do not miss it one bit. Just have to watch the kilos now that I’m not dancing all day, every day like I used to.

How important was Billy Elliot to the development of your career as a performer? Billy Elliot was the show that got me to Broadway. It made all my dreams come true to dance on Broadway and then to also perform with Sir Elton John at the Tony Awards was just amazing.

What’s the one dance or stage role you’ve not done but you’d love to do? Well I’ve heard rumours of a Strictly Ballroom musical in the works so I’d love to play the role of Scott Hastings that was made famous by Paul Mecurio. But looking back on my career so far I’ve loved all the roles I’ve done. I get excited by new musicals and originating roles so more of those maybe?

What’s your favourite number in A Chorus Line? The opening ‘Hope I Get It’. It’s the biggest, most electric opening that any dancer can do.

Glee or Smash? Have to say Smash as I have lots of friends in it.

What’s your favourite musical of all time? Well, all jokes aside I do love A Chorus Line but I do have a new favourite: Disney’s new musical called Newsies. My friend choreographed it and the male dancers are just phenomenal.

A Chorus Line will play at Sydney’s Capitol Theatre for 21 performances only from Friday 20 July, then travel to Perth’s Burswood Theatre playing from Saturday 20 October then to Brisbane from Friday 16 November 2012. Click here for more information or to buy tickets.

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Jada Pinkett Smith doesn’t eat for enjoyment, just nourishment

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Jada Pinkett Smith and Will Smith at the Men In Black 3 New York Premiere.

While some celebrities, including Eva Mendes, openly express their love for food, Jada Pinkett Smith isn’t one of them.

The 40-year-old, who is married to Will Smith, revealed the secret to her slim waistline in Essence magazine.

“I don’t eat for pleasure,” she said. “[I] had the only West Indian grandmother that could not cook,” she said.

“She was an awful cook, and she taught me that you don’t eat for taste, you eat for nourishment.

“And I have kept that over the years, so I can eat anything that’s healthy.”

Although she occasionally treats herself to chips and pizza, Jada’s diet is very health conscience.

“I eat for my schedule so I have to eat high-protein, lots of greens and healthy carbs so that I don’t fall flat on my face,” she said.

And it seems her busy schedule is about to get busier with the mum of three, including Willow, 11, and Jaden, 13 and her step son Trey Smith, 20, about to star in a movie with her husband.

“He can’t wait. He was like, ‘You and me, next.’ I was like, ‘Let’s do it’.”

Real Life

Loyal dog waits for owner for two days

Loyal dog waits for owner for two days

Loyal Yorkie: Michael Siau and Rambo reunited.

A Yorkshire Terrier has lived up to the reputation of dogs being man’s best friend by waiting for two days for his owner after he was accidently left at a truck stop in the US.

Arkansas truck driver Michael Siau’s nine-month-old pooch Rambo jumped out of his owner’s truck when he stopped at a rest area near Hannibal, Missouri and he wasn’t missed until Siau had driven on a further 200km.

“Didn’t even cross my mind that he might jump out. He never has before,” Siau told the Hannibal Courier-Post.

“I jumped back in the truck, put it in gear and drove off. And I just thought he was in the back asleep.”

It wasn’t until Siau arrived at Cedar Rapids in Iowa that he realised Rambo was missing.

Siau said he began “freaking out” and tried to work out where Rambo had gone missing. But despite his concerns, he made the decision to continue his journey as he knew turning back would mean jeopardizing his job.

Siau’s predicament was made worse by a feeling of déjà-vu. In October last year Rambo’s father, Ollie, who regularly took trips with Siau, was run over and killed. Siau was so distraught he had to take six months off work.

“I was freaking out. I had to calm down and think about how he could have possibly gotten out,” Siau said.

“And it came to me that was the only time he could have got out and I wouldn’t have seen him. I was just sure he was there.”

Siau said he couldn’t bear to lose another dog and began calling local authorities.

After some failed attempts, he got in contact with Hannibal animal control which sent officer Tim Ledbetter to the truck stop. He got there just in time.

When he arrived, sure enough, Rambo was there. He was sitting patiently, but a family who had stopped at the area was just about to adopt the “abandoned” pup.

“In about 60 seconds, he would have been gone,” Ledbetter said.

Siau and Rambo were eventually reunited at the Northeast Missouri Humane Society, an animal shelter, on June 5 (pictured above) where Rambo climbed up Siau’s shoulder and began kissing the back of his neck.

Together, the pair left for their next stop in Tennessee, with Siau assuring Rambo he would never be left behind again.

Parenting

My daughter had up to 50 seizures a day

My daughter had up to 50 seizures a day

As parents, the hardest thing Lee and Amy have ever done is watch their five-month-old daughter go through a complex, rare and life-changing surgery.

“My wife Amy and I knew that the operation was highly dangerous, and there was a possibility that we would lose her,” Lee said.

“We were worried that after the surgery she wouldn’t know who we were, or that she wouldn’t be able to smile or communicate with us. But this extraordinary operation was our only chance to make Ali a happy and healthy little girl.”

Now three-years-old, Ali is just one of the miracle stories to come out of the Sydney Children’s Hospital, Randwick.

Ali was born with severe epilepsy and from day one she suffered regular seizures. As she got older, the seizures got worse and occurred more frequently. Within a few months, Ali was having up to 50 seizures a day.

Ali’s life-changing surgery — a functional hemispherectomy, which is only performed in the most extreme cases of epilepsy — saw one-third of her brain removed.

Luckily, Ali’s age played a huge role in her recovery. Following the operation, her brain was able to rebuild itself, finding new paths for brain waves to control her speech and movement.

The remaining side of her brain learned to look after the tasks that had previously been controlled by the section that was removed.

Due to Ali’s remarkable recovery, doctors say that by the time she is five years old, her brain function will be the same as any other child her age. “Thanks to the surgery, she’s right on track. We’re watching her grow more and more every day,” Amy said.

Amazingly, in the two and half years since her operation, Ali has not had a single seizure.

Although there is a small possibility of having a seizure at some point in the future, Ali now lives a normal life.

“She’s amazing. She’s running and jumping, and her vocabulary is getting better. Her coordination and vision on her right side will always be affected, but it’s a small price to pay in exchange for Ali’s life. She is a very cheeky girl, who exceeds our expectations every day. We simply haven’t looked back,” Amy said.

Ali is one of the faces of the Sydney Children’s Hospital’s Gold Week telethon, which will take place on Monday, June 11, to raise money for the hospital. Make your donation now!

Parenting

Motherhood turns women into Facebook addicts

Motherhood turns women into Facebook addicts

Becoming a mother turns women in compulsive Facebook users, a new study has found.

Researchers from Ohio State University interviewed 154 mothers and 150 fathers and found that 44 percent of mothers reported using Facebook more after giving birth than before.

Around 29 percent estimated they used the social networking site the same as before they gave birth, while 27 percent said they used it less.

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For anyone who is friends with a new mother on Facebook, it will come as no surprise to hear that most of them spend a lot of time online posting photos of their new babies.

The study found that 93 percent of mothers used the site to upload and share images of their new addition.

New fathers, on the other hand, showed far less pronounced changes in their Facebook habits, with 31 percent saying their usage had increased, 51 percent reporting it had stayed the same and 19 percent saying it had decreased.

The results surprised the researcher, who expected new mothers to report they had no time for things like Facebook.

“Given all the stress that new parents are under and everything they have to manage, it wouldn’t have been surprising if we had found a decrease in Facebook usage, but that’s not what we found,” study co-author Sarah Schoppe-Sullivan said in a media release.

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Study leader Mitchell Bartholomew thinks new mothers might be using the social networking site as a source of support at a very stressful time.

“These mothers may be taking time off from work, and may be far from family, so this network they created for themselves on Facebook can be very valuable in helping them cope,” he said.

This study was published in the journal Family Relations.

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