Multiple Orgasm How-To
Nov 17, 2018 9:06pmCrossed wires It might sound tricky, but this one is surprisingly easy. Lie on your back and get your man to lie across you to make a cross. He then puts one leg between your legs and the other one on top, and slides inside. Flex and release your pelvic-floor muscles to heighten sensation for both of you. Because of the unusual angle, it's worth using lube to ensure the friction works the right way. Why it's good: "This position exposes the sensitive clitoral hood, enabling either of you to stimulate it easily," says sexpert Robin Sweet.
Front- row seat You lie on your back and raise your legs up and over your head as far as they will comfortably go. Once you're suitably stable, your man squats on top of you, slides in, and then leans forward to thrust inside you. As you get close to climaxing, he can lean forward to rest his weight on his hands on either side of your head, to deepen penetration. It's naughty, but oh-so-very nice! Why it's good:"This makes the most of every inch of your man, and it gives easy access for caressing his perineum," says sexual psychologist Emily Dubberley.
Reverse cowgirl side-saddle He lies on his back with his knees bent and his legs apart. You get on top with your back towards him – but rather than straddling him, keep one leg between his, with one hand on his chest and the other on his shin. You can then rock back and forth or up and down at whatever speed you like. Why it's good. "This one might take a bit of practice to get right, but persevere because it's great for deep penetration," says sex writer Kate Gould.
The missionary mix-up You do all the work here – but you get plenty of rewards! Your man lies back on the floor, leaning against a sofa or bed for support. You then straddle him with one leg between his legs and the other to one side. Rest your hands on the floor to help you to control your bouncing. He can assist by putting his hands on your hips to help you move up and down if you start to feel tired. Why it's good. "You're in control and can set the pace of thrusting, as well as grind against his thigh. He also gets easy access to caress your breasts and bum in between thrusts," explains Sweet.
The skier He lies on a bed with his bum at the edge of the mattress and legs in the air. Start by lying on top of him with your back against his chest, your pelvis above his. Now slide on top of him. Gradually sit up and lean forward, taking it slow to make sure you don't bend him the wrong way. Once you're sitting up, slowly lower your legs to the floor, then rock back and forth as desired. Why it's good: "It's great for targeting your G-spot because you can angle him wherever you want. And you can limit penetration levels too," explains Sweet.
The vixen You sit on a sturdy table and he stands facing you with his arms around your lower back. Brace your hands against the tabletop to support yourself as he slowly raises your right leg and props it on his left shoulder, then raises your left leg and props it on his right shoulder. Then he can either hold you close against him, or you can lean back. For a slightly less acrobatic version, you can tilt your pelvis up and wrap your legs around his waist. Why it's good. "It's perfect for G-spot stimulation," says Gould.
The jellyfish Ask your man to kneel down while you crouch over his lap facing him. With your arms around each other for support, get him to work up a rocking motion, moving apart and together in unison. Why it's good. "The angle is just right for deep or shallow penetration. And your breasts will also move against his chest, giving you extra stimulation," says Gould.
The bookshelf Stand in front of a wall and place your hands up against it. Get your man to stand behind and slide into you as you raise one leg up until your thigh is resting against your torso. From here you can deepen penetration by pushing against the wall to squeeze yourself back against him. And – voila. Why it's good "Your muscles will tighten as you raise your leg into position, meaning increased friction for both of you," explains Dubberley.